“…Love is kind…” – 1 Corinthians 13:4
This past year my oldest daughter, Ella Kate, turned 16. Like most teenagers, she wanted a big sweet-sixteen party. She had so many plans for how her special day should go. Sadly, the pandemic kept us from being able to gather with family and friends. She was so sad, but she understood. It doesn’t change the fact that what she hoped for, what she dreamed of, was not able to happen.
The day of her birthday arrived. We did what we could to make her day special. There were presents, cake, and a surprise. That night we stood in our front yard as cars began to parade down our street. One by one, friends and family began to drive up, stop and wish Ella Kate a happy birthday. She was so surprised because she thought she would not see anyone. As they stopped along our curb they would hand Ella Kate cards, balloons and occasionally candy. We were in our front yard for quite some time. It was such a joy to see so many people come from so many places, just to say, “Happy birthday” to Ella Kate.
As each person stopped by our house, we witnessed Ella Kate’s smile grow brighter. A day that began in disappointment turned to delight. Driving by our house was a simple gesture, although some drove a great distance. Driving by our house allowed Ella Kate to see how many people care for her and celebrate her special day. That night was truly a wonderful night for all of us.
The beautiful expression of love that we observed that night brought great happiness to us and reminded me that to love our neighbor requires tangible acts of kindness. Over the past year, COVID-19 has caused us to change how we live and how we interact with one another. Many of our neighbors are isolated from family and friends. Their normal places where they interact are limited. One way we could love our neighbor is to check on our friends who may be feeling isolated. A simple “hello” by phone, a letter, or even stopping by and saying “hi” from the front porch can turn a disappointing day into great joy. These are the things we do because we are called to love our neighbor, no exceptions.
– Rev. Keith King, Pastor of Worship
