Forgiveness can be one of the most difficult things we do in this life. Yet, Christ still commands us to forgive. In Matthew, Jesus says, “If you forgive others their transgressions, your heavenly Father will forgive you.” How do we forgive someone who has wronged us and left us angry and bitter? I believe the practice of forgiveness is definitely of a divine nature.
Many years ago, after my last marriage ended, I was so angry at my ex-wife for leaving not only me, but my children as well. She had become their parent after their biological Mom had died of cancer. So, when she announced she was leaving, I was filled with anger. How could she abandon these children who she had helped raise? For a few years, I wanted nothing to do with her. Then something changed. My heart softened, and I just grew tired of carrying around the contempt I felt for her. Life is too short to let your heart be filled with hate toward another person. I truly believe it was God who healed my heart and allowed me to move on with my life and forgive her.
At the last supper, Jesus tells His disciples that the wine in the cup represents His blood which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins. God is quick to forgive and welcome us home. Because of that grace, I am always reminded at the communion table that my heavenly Father expects me to do the same when dealing with others.
Can you let go of the anger that will destroy your life if you hold on to it long enough? In this Lenten season, who do you need to forgive?
Rev. Dave Poteet, Pastor of Congregational Care
