“And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.” – 2 Corinthians 9:8
We have all received advice that has made a difference in our lives. One such piece of advice for me was simple but profound. I was newly married and a young Youth Director. A retired pastor told me, “Be a giver and not a taker.” That phrase has stuck with me for over 20 years now.
Living a life that blesses others requires setting aside our selfish nature. As people of faith, we are called to look to the needs of our neighbors and help as we can. There is a rich blessing that comes from putting others’ needs before our own.
Evan Stirling recently experienced the blessing of generosity, which has helped shape his vision for the future. Even is a 16-year-old who lives in Havelock, North Carolina. A few months ago, Evan started learning to play guitar. He loves the electric guitar! Evan wants to play guitar like Jimi Hendrix. He has worked hard to develop the skills needed to play like a rock legend one day. For a young player, Evan is not bad at all.
Recently, Evan and his father, Gary, were in a local guitar shop. Evan was looking at a Fender Telecaster, which is often played by some of the best, including Jimi Hendrix. Evan enjoyed his time at the shop, but the guitar he loved was too expensive for a novice.
Out of the blue, something happened that shocked both Evan and Gary. A man whom neither Evan nor Gary knew approached them both with a guitar case. This man had been watching Evan play and was excited to see his enthusiasm and skill. He placed the guitar case next to Evan and complimented him on his playing. The stranger then told Evan to enjoy his new guitar. He looked at Evan and said, “It’s yours. Straight up.” The man had bought a new Telecaster, valued at over $1,500, and given it to Evan as a gift. With no other words, the man left the store. I assume with a smile on his face and joy in his heart.
This was a life-changing moment for Evan. Who knows? Evan was recently baptized. He may become a worship leader one day. Evan was blessed by this anonymous generosity, which has inspired him to do the same one day. Evan said, “Someday in the future, I want to pay it forward. Maybe buy a super expensive guitar and give it to some kid at a guitar store or in just some way.”
The future is filled with bright possibilities for Evan. He will do well…we all will…if we remember the blessing of generosity and follow the simple advice, “Be a giver and not a taker.”
-Rev. Keith King, Pastor of Worship
